On our first date we planned to meet at a bar for drinks, then go to his friend's show.
At first it was extremely weird, it was like a whole new world.
The first time I went on a date with a match, I had my friends come and watch because I did not want to become a news story.
I sent them to him, wishing him well and letting him know that I was thinking about him. I walked away, then, when I was out his view, started running to get as far away as possible. I contemplated digging into my computer to find his number again, but why should I be the one to reach out? But I get a mix of anger and sadness, thinking about how he couldn't respect my feelings enough to even talk to me about why he GHOSTED. I know there were other details here (like, um, idk the fact that they went on VACATION TOGETHER TO ANOTHER CONTINENT) that make this ghosting surprising, but I think the weirdest part of it all is the whole earrings situation.
All I got was a text about him traveling out of the country. On my birthday weekend, I was out with friends, and my best friend was in town.
The breakup hit me hard, but I got myself back up and pulled myself together.